What You Need to Know
You may just have been diagnosed with a mental illness, or you may have
already begun treatment. Either way, you’re probably experiencing a range of
emotions. For some people, receiving a diagnosis can be a relief, finally being
able to put a name to a problem. For others, it can be a major blow. You may
experience fear, anger, denial, shame or sadness. You may be wondering,
“Why did this happen to me?” “How will this affect my life? What will people
think of me?” Being told that you have a mental illness is not the end of the
world. With help and support, you can recover and achieve your life’s ambitions.
Of course, you will face many challenges as you begin your treatment,
but there is hope. Mental illnesses are manageable. And there are a number
of things you can do for yourself after a diagnosis to cope with the news, keep
up with your treatment, and support your own recovery.
1. Be Hopeful
Above all else, it’s important to maintain a positive outlook. Here are a few
things to keep in mind throughout your treatment and recovery.
• You are not alone in this experience. Mental illnesses are common,
affecting one in every five Americans.
• You can improve and achieve your goals. Today, many people who are
diagnosed with serious mental illnesses are managing their conditions and
regaining control of their lives.
• You can and should play as active role in your treatment. And the more
informed you are about your illness and treatment options, the better you’ll
be able to direct your recovery.
2. Get Emotional Support
An important step in coping with a diagnosis is to find emotional support. Talk
to friends and family members you feel close to and trust. They care about you
and want to help you recover. Discuss your feelings about the diagnosis and
any treatments or services that have been recommended. Don’t be afraid to let
people know how to help you. This support will be important, both as you
begin your recovery and when you have to deal with any setbacks along the
way. Also, you may want to meet people who have already been through what
you are currently experiencing. This can help you prepare for what’s ahead and
help you avoid any problems others may have been through in their recovery.
Seek out self-help group and support organizations that can reduce any
feelings of isolation and loneliness.
3. Learn All You Can About Your Diagnosis
If you’re ready, do some research on your particular illness, the recommended
treatments and other self-help ideas. The more you learn, the better you’ll be
in working with your doctor and making decisions that feel right for you. Again,
talk to people who have had similar experiences, or mental illnesses and
treatment options. There are a number of websites, including that of the
National Mental Health Association (www.nmha.org), which can give you
additional information. However, beware of websites that offer quick fixes or
don’t reveal their sources.
4. Understand Your Health Care Options
Getting the services you need and paying for them can be a challenge. Your
options may be limited by whether or not you have insurance, the type of
insurance you have (private, HMO, Medicaid, Medicare), and the amount of
coverage it provides for mental health care. There also may be a shortage of
mental health professionals where you live, and it can be tough to get an
appointment. But, remember, there are options.
• If you’re employed and have a health plan, call your health insurer to see if they
cover mental health services. Then find out which mental health professionals
in your area are willing to accept payment from your insurance plan. If your
employer has an Employee Assistance Program (EAP), they can also help you
find services you can afford.
• If you can get health care through a government program like Medicaid or Medicare,
you should contact a community mental health center or local health department to
see which doctors or programs accept this form of health insurance.
• If you don’t have health insurance, ask your community mental health center
about reduced-cost (or sliding-scale fee) mental health services.
5. Develop a Partnership with Your Doctor and/or Therapist
Once You have received a diagnosis and are in contact with a doctor or a mental
health professional, here’s what you need to know about making the most of
these relationships from the start.
• Make sure it’s the right fir for you. If possible, interview multiple providers;
don’t be afraid to meet with more than one. You’ll want to find a doctor,
mental health professional or peer counselor with whom you can relate.
Ask them about their style of treatment and experiences helping other
people with your particular illness.
• Be open with your doctor or therapist. Go to your appointments with a list
of questions you may have about your diagnosis and the therapies that are
being proposed.
• After starting a course of treatment, you should begin to notice changes:
relief from your symptoms, more self-assurance, greater ability to make
decisions. You should tell the doctor or therapist about your progress,
or if you are having any problems. Don’t be afraid to voice your concerns.
• Involve your family and friends in your treatment, if you’re comfortable with
that. Invite them to accompany you to an appointment or to sit in on a therapy
session.
Getting the right help requires perseverance and self-advocacy. Take
advantage of the options you have and continue to search for other ways to
meet your needs. Remember - getting back to your life is the goal of recovery!